Karla L. Miller

Karla L. Miller offers weekly advice on workplace dramas and traumas. You can send her questions at karla.miller@washpost.com.
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Work Advice: Office ‘conversation hogs’ talk back

In response to a recent column on overtalkers at work, readers offer observations and solutions from their own workplaces.

September 5, 2024

Work Advice: How to handle a coworker who hijacks conversations

How can you speak honestly about an interrupter’s irritating habit without being hurtful?

August 29, 2024

Work Advice: Defending your performance without being ‘defensive’

My bosses say I do good work, but they keep focusing on my old issues and then telling me I’m emotional and defensive when I try to explain.

August 22, 2024
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Work Advice: Can I opt out of discussing religious podcasts at work?

A reader wants to opt out of a boss’s discussions of religious podcasts on leadership.

August 15, 2024

Work Advice: How can I persuade my boss to keep my friend on staff?

My unpredictable boss wants to acquire property where my friend is the live-in caretaker. How can I advocate for my friend so she doesn’t lose her job and home?

August 8, 2024

Work Advice: When to report office affairs and when to keep mum

Readers weigh in on whether a worker should notify a co-worker’s wife that he’s cheating on her.

August 1, 2024

Work Advice: My co-worker is cheating on his wife. Should I tell her?

A reader walked in on a married co-worker and another woman in the supply closet. What’s the best course of action to help the co-worker’s wife?

July 25, 2024

Work Advice: I can’t unhear what I overheard on our security cameras

Owner overhears senior manager complaining about colleagues and pay on security cameras. How to address the issues without revealing the source?

July 18, 2024

Work Advice: When work for a foreign government poses a moral dilemma

I worked on a contract for a country that has committed unconscionable human rights violations. How do I get out of meeting with their representative?

July 11, 2024

Work Advice: My younger colleague is doing the same work for more pay

A reader who learned she’s making 20 percent less than a younger peer doing the same job debates taking another job elsewhere.

June 27, 2024